Our Perception of Beauty

We live in a culture that exaggerates physical beauty above and beyond where its true status lies. The media and culture have indirectly pushed people’s minds to treat beauty as one of the determinants of self-worth, especially in young girls and women. It becomes crucial for everyone of us to examine what beauty really is, and what role physical beauty has to play in our lives.

Is beauty limited to physical characteristics or is there a higher dimension to it? Is beauty an independent trait or does it shine in people with good personalities? Although the answers to these questions are very subjective, the Islamic view of beauty helps us to shape our opinions in the best manner possible.

All Creation Is Beautiful

Although the eyes may not perceive every creation around us as beauty, the Qur’anic verse (32:7) tells us that all creation is beautiful. This verse is clearly talking about beauty on a higher level than the mere physical dimension that our eyes try to find in what they perceive. This verse urges us to appreciate beauty in all creation and to see the beauty in Allah’s universe through observing how interconnected and orderly it is!

The Perception of Beauty

How does Islam view human beauty? Is physical beauty always looked upon as a positive trait? Needless to say, physical beauty is indeed a blessing – but according to Islamic teachings, beauty is just like any other material and perishable trait such as wealth, rank, and occupation. Physical beauty by itself has little worth and is given no significance in Islam if it does not accompany inner beauty (piety and good moral traits). Real beauty is what we carry with us in our journey to the hereafter: our good deeds. In the Holy Qur’an (3:106) we are reminded of Judgment Day when people’s deeds will determine their physical appearance: “On the day when (some) faces shall turn white and (some) faces shall turn black; then as to those whose faces turn black: Did you disbelieve after your believing? Taste therefore the chastisement because you disbelieved.”

In our everyday lives we often come across people who may be good-looking but something about their character repels us from them; the reverse is also true for people who may not be so good-looking but appear beautiful to us because of their positive qualities. A recent article by plastic surgeon Dr. Robert Tornambe, published by the Huffington Post, presents an interesting conclusion about how the mind judges beauty. The article “What Makes a Person Ugly?” focuses on certain positive personality traits that serve to enhance and sometimes even determine how we perceive physical beauty. Some characteristics that are mentioned are self-confidence, cheerfulness, altruism, and optimism. When it comes to judging between physical beauty and personality, our mind inclines towards appreciating people who possess such positive traits and brighter souls.

Actions that Enhance Beauty

Proximity to Allah and obeying His commands surely enhance one’s beauty, both inner as well as physical beauty. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him and his progeny) said, “Beauty is in the tongue (wording)”. Good moral conduct is one basis of judging what qualifies as beauty. Ayatollah Hussain Madhahiri writes in his book Islamic Family-Life Ethics, “Sometimes speech is like the beauty spot on the face which enhances the beauty of the person.” A person with good morals is truly beautiful inside out and wins peoples’ hearts.

In addition, some recommended actions enhance inner and outer beauty. One of them is the highly recommended Night Prayer (Salat al-Layl) that, when performed on a regular basis, enhances one’s physical beauty. Allama Majlisi writes in his book on Salat al-Layl: “Salat al-Layl makes one’s face beautiful; beautifies one’s etiquette; gives a pleasant smell to one’s body and increases one’s daily sustenance. It also removes sorrow and grief and gives strength to the eyes.”

Hence, closeness to Allah creates both inner as well as outer beauty! In conclusion, below is a historic couplet that refers to the beauty of Prophet Yusuf (peace be upon him), whose beauty is a symbol of Allah’s most beautiful creation:

“No one has ever seen beauty like Yusuf’s,
But He who created Yusuf has the true beauty.”

Let us try to reflect true eternal beauty from within ourselves!

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  • Fatima-s

    Beautiful article by a Beautiful sister!

  • sajjad

    very true..

  • zahida

    really beautiful articie

  • EshqAhlulbayt

    May God bless you, as sister Ftima said, Beautiful article by a beautiful sister. Jazake Allahu khayr.

    But I have a problem now… I’m afraid of starting praying salat Al-layl only because of the reason you named above. What am I going to do? Someone who could help me, please? Is it acceptable to pray or do anything which God appreciates only because it makes you beauti? Shouldn’t I do it only for Allah’s sake and to make him (SWT) satisfied?
    I have been thinking about starting salat al-layl everyday, not only in Ramadan and in the summer just because I had time to do it then. But now, I have much tests in school and homework to do, which prohibits me from continuing praying salat al-lay forever. Pleeease help me, may Allah swt help you in your live and i the hereafter. Is it okay to starting som ibadat only because it favors oyu in ypour life or makes your face look beautiful?!

    Another question: What if my parents trys to forbid me from praying salat al-layl, just because they don’t want me to waste my time? Should I obey them?!

    Thank you very much and I hope for an answer as soon as possible. I have been waiting for such an article for many months.

    Allah yibarek bikum.


    • Noor The Student

      Salamu alaikum my sister!
      I guess this reply is late. I’m not anyone who is considerably knowledgeable or anything, but I think you should pray salatul layl, nevertheless, and ask Allah (swt) to purify your intention. Sometimes the shaytan will stop you from doing something good by convincing you your intention is wrong, so don’t fall into that trap. Just start and Allah (swt) will help you 🙂
      As for salatul layl, even 2 rakah a night is wonderful, it wont take up alot of time at all! You can increase when your schedule lightens if you would like. Remember that small regular habits are the best. However if your parents don’t approve, then its best to listen to them. After all, listening to your parents is fard whereas extra prayers are sunnah.
      This is just my own advice. I hope it helped. Allah knows best 🙂

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  • salmasadat

    thank u my dear fatima….
    it was very intresting & useful for me…..

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